i think in general, i am a good listener. someone might want to contradict my claim, but that is just how i see myself most of the times. although, i am not really the person you want to chat online with. i hate it when people do not even make an effort to show that they are listening whenever someone else is talking, what more if it is me who is doing the talking. or when the professor is trying to start the class and some people just cannot stop talking and whispering ( more annoying if they are sitting in the front row ).